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Untraditionally Lala ·Oct 7, 2026 ·33 min

Sex Unlocked: Does Sex Get Better with Age? with Joan Vassos & Susan Noles

Evaluation and Summary

4.4/10

Untraditionally Lala hosts Golden Bachelorette star Joan Vassos and Golden Bachelor fan favorite Susan Noles for a candid conversation about sex and aging. The episode promises to explore whether sexual satisfaction improves with age, framed around the experiences of women in their 60s who are actively dating and sexually engaged. The discussion covers practical topics including sexual positions, sex toys, and what older women wish their male partners understood about intimacy. The hosts also touch on attraction markers like "short kings" and "big dick energy," suggesting a playful, irreverent tone. The episode appears designed to destigmatize sexuality among older adults and position it as a topic worthy of frank discussion rather than taboo. The show notes indicate the conversation includes personal confessions that are candid enough that adult children of the guests might find them uncomfortable, suggesting genuine vulnerability rather than sanitized talking points. The framing—"the best sex might still be ahead of you"—positions aging not as a decline in sexual vitality but as a potential improvement, likely exploring themes of confidence, self-knowledge, and freedom from earlier life constraints. The episode leverages the cultural moment around the Golden Bachelor/Bachelorette franchises, which have normalized older adults as romantic and sexual beings on mainstream television.

Verdict: A solid, entertaining conversation that delivers on its premise of older women discussing sexuality candidly, but lacks analytical depth or expert insight to elevate it beyond pleasant gossip.

TV & Film rubric

  • Critical insight 2/5 20%

    Show notes suggest conversational sharing rather than analytical depth; no indication of expert commentary or framework beyond personal anecdotes

  • Behind-the-scenes knowledge 2/5 20%

    Guests are reality TV personalities rather than sex educators, therapists, or industry insiders; no evidence of craft or production access

  • Entertainment 3/5 15%

    Playful tone ("short kings," "big dick energy") and candid confessions suggest lively conversation, though limited detail on execution

  • Substance 3/5 15%

    Covers multiple concrete topics (positions, toys, partner communication) but show notes don't indicate depth, research, or structured exploration beyond personal experience

  • Delivers on its title 4/5 15%

    Title promises exploration of whether sex improves with age; guests are older women actively dating, and episode directly addresses this question with personal testimony

  • Value for time 3/5 15%

    33 minutes is reasonable for a conversational podcast; no evidence of padding or unnecessary tangents, but also no indication of exceptional pacing

How we score TV & Film

Worth it if you enjoy frank, irreverent conversations about sex and aging from relatable personalities, or are curious about the Golden Bachelorette stars' perspectives on intimacy.

Based on the episode description. AI-generated; it can be wrong.

Show notes

Golden Bachelorette Joan Vassos and Golden Bachelor fan favorite Susan Noles join Lala and Salley to talk short kings, big dick energy, and why the best sex might still be ahead of you. From favorite positions to toys and the things they wish men understood, these ladies have plenty to teach...and a few confessions their kids should probably skip. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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